Wednesday 4 July 2012

Girl: hi, i know you hate me but... why? i have done all i can for you...
Boy: i know. thank you. but i cant like you. sorry. there's another girl on my mind.
Girl: oh... i see... sorry for the trouble...

I 've been in this kind of sad situation before... believe me, it HURTS. I mean, i did all i can for a guy, and he just blows it just like that! It's painful man... Well, people don't always get what they want so...

You can't expect everyone to like you a 100%. Sometimes, even your closest friend doesn't like you a 100%. No one is perfect. And that is the amazing thing about us people. We're NOT perfect, we CAN'T be perfect, we will NEVER be perfect. Perfection is just a goal that we can never reach. Not even with plastic surgery. But sometimes, we have that 5 second moment where we feel PERFECT, EMPOWERED, CONFIDENT and STRONG. like, nothing can stop us. When we're with the people we like, a crush, a relative or a best friend, we feel AWESOME!! And then there are those moments whereby your friend, or your cousin or even your crush makes a fat joke about you, or any joke in that matter and you feel down, angry, sad. Everything we thought we had, poofed away. Sometimes, we make the jokes, but that's for entertainment, sometimes, we laugh it off with others and sometimes, its so severe that we take it so seriously. We start thinking if it really was just a joke or was it a fact. 

Anyways, What i'm trying to get at here is that, when somebody does something nice or goes out of their way for you, please APPRECIATE it. Like when a girl who can't fold straw hearts learns how to fold one and does 99 of it for a guy, DAMN! that's one lucky guy. Or when a guy went out of his way just to get the girl's number so he can casually chat with her and she has no clue about it... WOW! what a guy! Or when a girl actually remembers her boyfriend's birthday but what is he doing? out with his friends partying all night, worse part, a girl picked up his phone. Next morning, she saw pictures of him partying with pretty gals all night. He doesn't even apologize, even acts like nothing happened. Another example would be when a guy is madly in LOVE with a girl, and he asks her out on a date, he gets REJECTED. Not once, but MANY times, how do you think that guy FEELS?

I have been through rejections before, i have been both rejected and the one rejecting as well. In some cases, it's really hard to reject the person or reject something. But for me, i feel that if you can reject, you can accept. 

 





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